"Enjoy your successes, but do not get too excited
by them. Just keep meditating away." Rabbi
Jonathan Ome
r-Man
Is
meditation boring?
Rabbi Omer-Man writes: "There
are many different kinds of meditation, but common to each is observing
how the mind works. Ultimately, it is very important that we cultivate
a sense of noble boredom, the ability to be present without needing
something to happen. This is one of the most important things in
meditation practice."
"For some people, meditation is the most natural thing in the
world. They move directly into it. For most of us, it’s a struggle.
For many people, the main difficulty of meditating is that it’s
scary to open the closets of the mind. You just don’t know
where you’re going and whether
it’s worthwhile. Joining a group can help: it reinforces our desire
to meditate. And if you belong to a meditation group, you may discover that
everybody
has the same remarkably banal and ordinary difficulties. But difficulties
are the major part of the course for meditators. The obstacles themselves
are points
of transformation. Patience is key."
"My own spiritual practice became more formalized in my mid-thirties
when I found some Buddhist meditation teachers. It later became
integrated into a Jewish meditation practice.
I have a strong regular practice but there are times when it just disappears.
Sometimes I have periods of doubt, or my practice is boring. It’s just
sitting, and yet an incredibly rich part of my life. I feel it has changed
my path in the world."
Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche adds: "The fear of boredom often keeps people
from meditating. We're afraid there will be nothing to entertain us, nothing
to hold our interest. And in truth, we will be bored at times. If we observe
the boredom, and taste it completely, we'll begin to just settle in, and
accept boredom as part of the landscape of peaceful abiding. That's progress."
"What we're really bored with (instead of meditation)
is our repetitive, habitual thought patterns. We see the tricks we
play on ourselves with thoughts, emotions and concepts. This boredom
is not a problem. Instead, it inspires us."
Alan Watts adds: "The feeling of boredom can be very
interesting if we simply watch the feeling, without attempting to change
it or judget it in any way. That is the essential process of meditation."
Books Available from Amazon
Meditation
from the Heart of Judaism, edited
by Avram Davis ($12) In their own voices, 22 Jewish meditation
teachers comment and instruct about meditation practice.
Turning
the Mind into an Ally, by Sakyong
Mipham Rinpoche ($17) This book joins two streams of meditation
teachings: Buddhism and
Shambhala. Mipham Rinpoche offers detailed instructions for
'building a courageous mind through the practice of sitting meditation.'
Guided
Meditations, Explorations and Healings, by
Stephen Levine ($11) offers dozens of meditation techniques for
developing compassion, confronting illness or grief, recovering
from addictions
or eating disorders, and working with pain.
Meditation
for Dummies, by Stephen Bodian ($14)
Bodian is a therapist and meditator who was also the editor of Yoga
Journal magazine for ten years.
His book provides detailed instructions
for a handful of meditation techniques.
Still
the Mind: An Introduction to Meditation, by Alan Watts,
($10) and also available on CD ($13). The book is a transcription
of Zen meditation talks given during the mature years of his life.
They are deep and revealing.
Zen
Mind, Beginners Mind, by Shunryu Suzuki, ($10) and also
on audio
cassette ($30). One of the most popular meditation books
of all time.
Links
Rabbi Jonathan Ober-Man has a Jewish meditation
center in Los Angeles www.metivta.org
Rabbi Avram Davis founded Chochmat HaLev, a school
and practice center for Jewish meditation in Berkeley. www.chochmat.org
Stephen Bodian has a site www.meditationsource.com which
includes his biography and information about his meditation teaching,
writings and therapy practice.
Shunryu Suzuki Roshi founded the San Francisco Zen Center,
the Tassajara retreat center, and Green Gulch farm. All three accept overnight
guests and offer a rich array of meditation training programs. www.sfzc.com
Alan Watts lived from 1915 to 1973. During the
1960's, he gave a weekly radio lecture on Zen Buddhism, taught, and
is credited with introducing the 'Beat' poets to zen. He is one of
the
most popular
writers about meditation, even today. His life and writings are detailed
a www.alanwatts.com. Many
of his lectures were recorded and are available on cassette, DVD,
or CD though Amazon.